I took this week off and came back to Mason City to
stay for a few days before I heading up to Minnesota. Of course I brought a bike with – this time
Tessa made the drive. I think
she liked this trip better than the last one, when we drove through a freak May blizzard,
and she was covered in snow the entire time.
But this time, we were welcomed with sunshine and some cooler
summer temps. We were also greeted by
Bob and Teri, who were letting me crash at their home yet again. I have known Bob and Teri since I first
worked at the American Cancer Society (ACS) as an intern in 2007. Teri also worked for ACS, and we became quick
friends and stayed in touch even after I left for Anchorage. When I was making plans to move back to Iowa
in 2009, it was Bob who called and offered to have me move into the rental he
owned in Clear Lake. From then on Bob was lovely called my Slumlord and I
his Slumlady. Needless to say, Bob and
Teri have been and continue to be great friends of mine, and I love being able
to visit and stay with them when I am in town.
Shortly after I arrived, I made a trip over to my favorite
bike shop, Wayne’s Ski and Cycle, to have a tire tube changed and to chat with
some of my favorite bike boys. As soon
as I walked in I was greeted with a smile from the guys and a “hey, how have you
been.” Even though they were pretty
busy, Max was able to get my bike up and changed out, and we also took time to
catch up with everything going on with everyone at the shop and with my life in
Dubuque.
I first went to Wayne’s when I had moved to Clear Lake and I
have never stopped. They not only do a
great job fixing bikes, but they never talked down to me or make me feel like I
didn’t know what I was doing (even though I truly did not know what I was doing). They always treated me with respect and taught
me how to turn my riding into a passion while still having a fun time and also
that I should probably clean my bike more – like it was important or something. But there was one thing that they did that
drove me nuts – they always insisted on hugging me when I would come in, and I
know the fact that I was a not a big hugger at the time only encouraged their
bear like squeezes. But I learned to embrace
the hugs that smelled of coffee and bike grease, and I had almost forgotten how much
I had loved coming to the shop and just hanging out with the boys, they always
had stories to tell as they would crank on the bikes.
The sunshine filled view heading towards Nora Springs |
Shortly after my ride, I got showered and changed so I could
head out and meet up with my friends, Julie, Megan and Rachel, at Cancun, one
of our favorite spots in town. I stopped
by my old house and picked up Julie.
Julie and I had been roommates for the last two years that I lived in
Mason City and I miss being able to talk with her every day. We had met through Relay For Life and became
fast friends who somehow figured out how to be roommates and not kill each
other in their sleep. She has always
served as my confidant and sounding board along with being able ring all of my
crazy ideas into one pile while smiling and laughing at my stories.
After grabbing Julie, we headed to Cancun to meet up with
Rachel and Megan. We had all met when we
lived in Mason City and after Rachel moved to Waterloo and I to Dubuque, we
have stayed closed with many visits to eachother's cities. Again we caught up on life updates and Rachel
gave us our pottery that we had painted in Cedar Falls when we were there for
her birthday. Megan gave us the update
on the latest wedding plans and decisions for the upcoming marriage of her and
her fiancé, Reagan.
I met Megan through Julie and have enjoyed countless days
and late nights hanging out with her.
Megan has the ability to teach me how to relax and let go when all I wanted
to do is sit up straight and worry. She
had recently gotten engaged at a Cubs game to Reagan, who ironically is Bob’s
son. As we talked more about the wedding
and plans, the food arrived and Rachel talked more about Waterloo and her life
there.
I met Rachel through two
different avenues – work and mutual friends.
She is a great person to have in your corner and to share many laughs
with. We have bonded even more after our
moves and she is one of my favorite pit-stops when I am traveling through Cedar
Falls/Waterloo. After lunch, Megan, Julie, and I made plans for the
afternoon and evening to spend more time together in Clear Lake while Rachel needed to get back on the road home.
Tessa enjoying the view of Clear Lake |
As my mind drifted
and my tires turned, I thought about all of the friends in my life, especially the ones here in North Iowa. I thought about the friends that have been there for what seemed
like forever, the ones that are constant and true, and the ones that pushed me
even when they knew it would made me uncomfortable. They were all different, but they were mine. The ways we met, the things we had in common
and the way they make we feel when I am around them.
Much like the wine bottles in my cabinet, my
friends all have a story of how they got there and why they fill my life with
so much joy. Is it odd then that all of
my friends like wine? I think it works
out perfectly because as they say – Like wine, friends only get better with
age.
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